We are all in it for something

We may not admit it but we are in relationships for something. We love the benefits that come with it! Some are are in it for love, money, sex, etc. What are you in it for? Why are you in it? Do you really love the person or you just want what you can get out of him or her? See the thing here is that we don't fear wasting our time. But we all know that time wasted shall never regain. Commitment is something you cannot just have with anyone. It needs to be with the right person and by the right person I mean a person who helps you grow in everyway possible, spiritually, mentally, emotionally and financially. I don't know how you guys define "the right person." We can't just be with someone who doesn't help us grow, or maybe we can since we are all looking for something. What happened to people falling inlove without looking for something in return? Is it worth it being in a meaningless relationship? I'll make an example with older men and teenage girls or rather teenage boys with older women... these people do not love each other, they just want to "help each other" they do not really care about each other. To them it's just a business transaction if I may call it that, sex in exchange for money. The thing is that we all know what's happening; we are just choosing to turn a blind a eye.